Monday, September 10, 2007

Hey fellow bloggers.

I had a very interesting talk with Jamie just now.
It's so amazing how Women are created in such a way and how Men are created in such a way. We women always complain about how big the male ego is when in real fact we should actually appreciate what they have. Obviously being overly egoistic is really stupid but having that ego is important to a man and i finally understand that now. They too can feel like their not good enough sometimes. Men are the sort that always need to accomplish something in life and they will analyse whether they can accomplish it before they pursue it. Their like the fighters. Woman on the other hand are sensitive creatures who want to be pursued but at the same time we feel sometimes we are not good enough to be pursued when in real fact both parties are good enough to be pursued and to pursue. Get what i mean?

Its really interesting. That's why I've learnt that when we woman want something done we should go straight to the pointbut in a proper manner. We should'nt go.. like you know but i dunno ( which i admit i do alot and am learning to be straight to the point so that Kal wont be frustrated with me.) In real fact the more we do that and are scared of telling the man what we want, the more we are pushing him away because he won't know what to do and that in turn will make him feel like he is not good enough to fix things as well and that's when problems arise.

That's why we should really appreciate man instead of hating them and saying you know man or you know woman. We should appreciate each other's qualities and say hey he's made like that in the image of what God wants him to be. I know we woman love, just simply love going the indirect approach of solving things. Honestly i found out it leads no where but confusion to a man. Well i am lucky that Kal digs out stuff from me that im scared of telling but those who doesnt have the same fortune as me should maybe tell it to the man straight. Im not saying he's lousy or that your not good. It takes two to work. Kal adjusted to my character and maybe its like how we have to adjust to theirs too. I am learning how to honestly open up and tell him.this and that i want this done.., your making me feel.., i want your attention..., why are you .. I am learning not to go i dunno and really say it out. It creates less confusion that way.

Well i really don't know lots about it because that's what jamie and I have talked about so far. I really want to get the books captivating and wild hearts than maybe i'll understand me as a woman and him as a man more. It will really help my relationship. Maybe all those couples out there should get it too.

Till next time..

Love Chels